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I have to write out my life story. It is nothing glamorous full
of action, thought it may be controversial, none of that matters to me.
It is the simple story of a simple life. To get out the pain that has come
to me in my short 43 years, to ease it. My name is Troy James Baldova.
I was born on a chilly morning in October. The 14th, of the
year 1952. St. Andrews was a sleepy little town, always has been. The day
of my birth my brother Zach was awaiting my arrival at our small house
by fixing up the room that was to be mine, doing so by placing all of his
stuffed animals around the crib. My mother, Guineth was thrilled to have
two glowing young boys, thought Zach was first and always would be. James
was the name of my father. I did not know him that well, I could never
get close to him. He shut me out of his life, as though I was not his child.
I never knew why, and do not to this day-why he could never love me.
I can’t remember much of my young life. I only remember the
time I spent playing with Zach, him teaching me football, wrestling in
the yard behind our house. More than once I found myself laying in my room,
looking up at the ceiling, wanting to be Zach so bad that it hurt. I wanted
father to talk to me, even in the slightest, I wanted mother to let me
help her around the house, I wanted all those things and more. Envy was
a strong emotion between me and my brother. Zach brought me to the open
lot by our house the night before I started high school. It was empty,
hard packed-down grass covering the entire plot, where all the kids from
our neighborhood played. The sky that night seemed to be overflowing with
stars, in every corner of my view there were small bright dots. I knew
that I should have been scared, I should have been afraid of the shadows.
But I wasn’t, I know that laying there next to me was my big brother, and
that nothing would ever happen to me, he would protect me. It’s strange
how much you can rely on one person, without even realizing until it’s
too late.
I can see July 18, 1966 as if it were but a few hours ago.
I was sitting at my desk, Carrie lay on my bed, paging through one of my
comic books. I heard Zach talking to my mother in the den, and when his
footsteps approached the hall I knew he was coming to my room.
“He you,” He leaned against the frame of my door, his ‘killer
smile’ as mom liked to call it, spread across his face. “You wanna go to
Denise’s house with me?” I went with him to Denise’s almost every week,
but this time I got a little knot in my stomach when he asked.
“Well,” I looked over at Carrie, who was now on her feet,
already putting her shoes back on. “I guess so." I laughed as Carrie looked
up, realizing that she had already assumed the answer to be yes. Zach smiled
once more as Carrie led the way out of the room, pulling me by the arm
behind her. Zach had a beautiful 1965 Plymouth, painted a deep shade of
blue that he was fond of calling ‘midnight’. He would always say “Hey Troy,
you in the mood to take midnight out for a spin?” to me on nights when
it was just the two of us left home.
Carrie and I sat in the back seat, because we were stopping
to pick up one of Zach’s friends-Freddie. When we arrived as Denise’s house,
she was in back playing with her dog sparks. Carrie and I, although
years younger than everyone else who was there, did not feel out of place,
this was a normal weekend activity for us. Zach said that we were leaving
in awhile because Denise didn’t want anyone over when her parents came
home. But Carrie had to be home within the hour, and Zach didn’t want to
leave so soon, he said he had to talk to Denise about next Thursday. I
told Carrie that I would walk with her to her house, and then meet Zach
at home in time for dinner, even though our parents were at some meeting
for the weekend. Zach always cooked for the two of us, and we agreed to
meet around 7 o’clock that night.
I got home around ten instead, having been asked to stay for
dinner at Carrie’s, And I knew that Zach wouldn’t mind me being late, not
like mom would’ve. I walked up the small path that led to the front door,
the lights weren’t on-so I figured Zach must have gone to bed, or invited
Denise over. The second assumption made a smile cross my face. The big
door in the front was still bolted, this brought a little suspicion but
I remembered that Zach could’ve just gone in through the garage entrance.
I walked around back, that door was always open. The kitchen was silent.
I couldn’t even hear the TV in the den. Every light in the entire house
was out, which made the shadows from the moon paste themselves on the walls.
I flipped on the light that lit the stairwell, still no noise-Zach couldn’t
be sleeping or I’d hear him snoring- I thought. And if Denise was over?
I thought…I had better go make sure he’s even up there. I ran up the carpeted
stairs that were worn in the center from the traffic of two little boys.
At the top, I looked down the hallway. A thin line of light shined from
beneath the door to Zach’s room. But, no lights had been showing
when I walked up to the house…he must be home, has heard me and turned
on the light in expectance of my arrival. The old floor boards creaked
a little from wear as I walked. I stood in front of Zach’s door. I opened
it up, noticing how cold the knob was. I expected to see Zach laying in
his bed reading the latest edition of his car magazine that he loved so
much. Instead I saw a shadow, A swinging shadow held in place by a line
of rope attached to the white plank board ceiling. I remember screaming,
screaming until the world came in upon me, until all I heard was all I
heard was Zach’s voice playing over and over again in my head…”Troy, be
strong. I’ll always stand behind you, I’ll always be there.” Just as he
had on that night that we sat alone together in the baseball field.
I can’t remember anything until, I’m sitting in a room. Glorious
white light shining al around me. I thought I was dead, I thought that
I had screamed so hard I had died-and that Zach would be here any minute,
to comfort me with his strength. Then Father came into the room. He looked
at me, his leathery face looking worn and much older than ever before.
The browness of his jacket shattered my hopes of heaven. He didn’t say
a word, just looked at me with a dull stupor-like expression on his face.
I sat up in the hospital bed that had that pungent sterile smell to it.
Clearing my throat, I managed to say one word. “Zach?” and that was the
first and only time I actually saw my seemingly heartless father cry. He
nodded his head as the tears slipped slowly down his face, making little
wet lines on his dry skin. I lay back down, and after he left…I cried too.
I found out that the reason for Zach’s suicide, although meaningful,
was not justified. He wrote that he could not handle the pressure any more.
Him and Denise had broke up that night, though they were engaged. He said
that he would always love her, that he would always be with all of us,
in spirit. But that he couldn’t take it any longer.
The next years held a kind of magic for me. Black magic in
some ways…but not all ways. Carrie, being my best friend was there for
me after I got over the initial shock of the death. My grades slipped dramatically
in school, and father cared even less than he had before. My senior year
of high school, my mother started to see hallucinations, she thought that
she saw Zach walking around the house, she even started talking to him.
Father took her to the doctor one day. I never saw my mother again, they
had to put her in a hospital. Father said it was for the best, said it
would be better for everyone if mother just had a little ‘vacation’. Even
though it was hard for me, I had to put that behind me. In fact, writing
this down is the first time that I’ve accounted everything following Zach’s
suicide fully. It brings back all of the pain, all of the hurt that I felt
during that time. But I felt as if I had to let it out on paper. For, earlier
this year, Carrie died. She had cancer, and felt that she could no longer
go on living with the agony of the knowledge of her death. One night when
I was out, I came home to find yet another death. This one from overdosing
on her painkillers.
Carrie and I have been married in 1971, and have 3 children—Natalie,
Dameon, and Zachary. I, unlike my father, actually was a part of my children’s
lives. I watched Natalie grow up, even give her away at her own wedding.
I saw Dameon apply to architecture school. Zachary, be valedictorian of
his graduating class. And I witnessed each of them weep at their mother’s
grave. I cannot go through another death. And although I realize that my
children will be heartbroken by what I must do…It must be done, Death is
inevitable. I know that I will miss them immeasurably. I just want them
to be happy, and since Carrie’s death-I have no one. I hope in some small
amount I will be remembered upon this earth…but, I must say farewell to
those that I love. And although I realize that this is not the life that
I wanted for myself. This is all I will ever become. I cannot go on living
in this house which holds so many memories for me. No longer can I stand
all the pain. Forgive me…
{-=Troy James Baldova=-}
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-=Born=-
October, 14, 1952
-=Died=-
August, 22, 1995
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